So I’m a strong catholic believer, but i don’t know where i stand on homosexuality. I’m all for people being themselves, and loving who they love, but the bible is clear that it’s wrong, what should my opinion be? Love is love but i’m told its wrong


The part of the Bible that is clear is Leviticus. It is also the part of the Bible that also tells you not to mix your fibers or grains. So If you want to go with it, empty you closet of all the cotton/polyester clothes you have, and throw out the multigrain bread you have.  Oh and also no more shrimp or lobster for you either. Shellfish is a no-no as well. The bible also says slavery is okay. All of this is in the first testament. Jesus never said anything about homosexuality, but he did say we should love one another.


These are positions you should decide for yourself, as you must be aware, what we might think about other people and their life choices has no bearing on them. Belief is the practice of accepting without evidence, following the ideals of others. In this case, you cite scripture, but choose to honor only certain bits of the whole (Gator Blu gave good examples). That you choose to live this way in your faith is as small a matter to others as is your stance on their personal preferences.  Shoe on the other foot: What of others’ opinions of your Catholicism, does it bother you that there are those who find fault with this? Would you have them impose their positions on you? Food for thought…

I am a Catholic (cradle, now 71 years old), so let me take a shot at this.When I was a teenager and young adult, homosexuality carried quite a societal stigma.  I have always been heterosexual, and that was well buttressed during my upbringing by the extant dislike (more like disgust, I fear) of homosexuals.I was always taught Hate the sin, lover the sinner, so I always had a way to separate the 16 year old who stole the package of gum from the store and the 16 year old active homosexual from what they did and still love them in the general way that adolescents can sort of understand that concept.  I have had a great and sustained interest in theology and psychology since I studied both formally.  I was also abused as a child (NOT sexually) and that has always tended to make me want to understand the motivations of those who perform actions that for whatever reason are judged (whether rightly or wrongly) harshly by the society in which they live.Bottom line—for years, I have actively sought to wrap my mind around homosexuality.  About four years ago, I realized that it was highly unlikely that I would ever be able to do so, so I told God (literally) that I thought that perhaps homosexuality was not something I needed to understand.And if you can’t understand something, it’s hard to have an informed personal opinion about it.So, here is my present approach to homosexuality—currently I do not have a personal opinion on it, nor do I have a responsibility to formulate one at present. Beyond realizing that homosexuality in and of itself does not assure the continuation of the species, I do not understand how it fits into anyone’s daily life, but  I certainly do not fear homosexuality.  Interacting with homosexuals as fellow humans is easy—after all, I’m human too.  As to other questions, e.g., morality and legality, I leave that dialogue to those in the appropriate fields.Love is an act we perform.  The genital component of love is a separate issue.  So are feelings.  (Just a heads up for understanding.)

I was going to make a point similar to Gator Blu, but I believed she expressed it better than I would have. If you decide to believe that homosexuality is wrong anyways, I want to encourage you to be respectful of gay people anyways and act like a decent person. While you don’t have to agree you still have to respect them and leave them alone regarding it.When I was still religious, I was also homophobic, it was actually this flowchart that changed my mind about it:

Megan I am also catholic and I have nothing wrong with that and if that’s what you believe then I think its alright. Your right. With all people being themselves . I don’t see anything wrong with that at all.

As a Catholic it’s not your place to judge others God loves all of mankind and all of mankind sins. In the Popes first year he was asked about a certain gay priest in the Vatican and the Pope replied who am I to judge them awesome answer.

It is sad that people who claim to be Christian love and accept what God clearly said is wrong not only in Leviticus 18:22, You must not lie down with a male in the same way that you lie down with a woman. It is a detestable act.  Also in the New Testament at 1CORINTHIANS 6:9-11 says Or do you not know that unrighteous people will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Do not be misled. Those who are sexually immoral,idolaters,adulterers,men who submit to homosexual acts,men who practice homosexuality, thieves,greedy people,drunkards,revilers,and extortioners will not inherit God’s Kingdom.  And yet that is what some of you were. But you have been washed clean; you have been sanctified; you have been declared righteous in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and with the spirit of God.  Even though it is an accepted practice in the world today it is not with God. The Bible was written for all people no matter what time period they have lived on earth.

The BIble says in 1st Chorinthians 6:9 that homosexuals will not enter the kingdom of God.If you think someone won’t be punished becuz they r loved, read Hebrews 12:6Yes, I would love my child if she became homosexual. Does that mean I continue to let her live in our home? No.I’ve told her this many times.


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